Advice for family and friends

If you are concerned about yourself, or a friend or neighbour, there are people you can speak to and there is help available. No matter who is helping, everyone is in charge of making their own decisions and has the right to be respected and listened to.

• Trust your instinct – if something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.
• Don’t ignore it.
• Don’t assume that someone else is doing something about the situation. Tell someone about it so that they can help.

Call 999 if you are reporting a crime that is in progress, or if someone is in immediate danger, or contact the Bradford Council’s Multi-Agency Safeguarding Hub (MASH) or telephone 01274 431077 if you think someone is at risk or is being abused.

Care homes and home carers
Contact the Bradford Council  if you’re concerned about:

• Someone not being treated properly in a care home
• Someone being mistreated by a carer.

NHS hospital or clinic care

• Contact the manager of the hospital or clinic if you’re worried about someone.

Contact Bradford District Care NHS Foundation Trust for further information 

Help and advice
If you want to discuss your concerns or  get some advice, contact the Action on Elder Abuse helpline on 0808 808 8141 or visit their website at elderabuse.org.uk

To help them decide what to do, the authorities always contact the adult concerned. What they want to happen is very important. They will try to talk to them first, even if it is difficult for them to communicate what has happened.

If the person has substantial difficulty with being involved, then they may ask for an independent advocate to help them understand what is happening and to help them express their views.

The person telling us about the possible abuse or neglect can remain anonymous.

Safeguarding means keeping people safe from harm or abuse and promoting their welfare.

We all have the right to live our lives free from abuse. It is recognised that certain groups of people may be more likely to experience abuse and less able to access services or support to keep themselves safe.

This may include people with:

• a learning, physical or sensory disability
• mental ill health or dementia
• frailty due to age
• an acquired brain injury
• a drug or alcohol problem
• certain types of physical illness.

Abuse can happen anywhere at any time – in the street, in the home, in a residential or nursing home, in a day care centre or hospital, on a computer or mobile phone.

Abuse can happen at any time, day or night.

Abuse may be committed by anyone – relatives, partners, friends, care workers, or strangers.

Abuse can take many forms.

Whatever the circumstances, abuse is always wrong, and we need to consider how we can support the person bring the abuse to an end.

Abuse can be:
Discriminatory abuse – includes abuse, such a harassment, slurs or hate crime based on a person’s race, gender, sex, disability, faith, sexual orientation, or age.

Domestic abuse – is an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse… by someone who is or has been an intimate partner or family member regardless of sexuality.

Financial and material abuse – includes theft of money or possessions, misuse of someone’s benefits or finances, exploitation, fraud, pressure in connection with financial matters.

Modern slavery – includes human trafficking, forced labour and domestic servitude.

Neglect and acts of omission – such as a carer not meeting a person’s physical or health needs or the withholding of necessities, such as medication and adequate nutrition.

Organisational abuse – where any of these forms of abuse, or poor practice are caused by the way an organisation practices, this is called organisational or institutional abuse.

Physical abuse – includes hitting, kicking, slapping, rough handling, misuse of medication, inappropriate sanctions or unlawful / inappropriate restraint.

Psychological abuse – includes threats of harm or abandonment, humiliation, blaming, controlling, coercion, harassment, verbal abuse.

Self neglect – includes situations where a person is declining support with their care needs, hygiene, health or their environment, and this is having a significant impact on their overall well being; this can include hoarding.

Sexual abuse – making someone carry out a sexual act they have not, or cannot consent to; or were pressured into consenting to.

Find out more in our what is adult abuse? resource.